Wednesday, April 16, 2008

A boy named Shay and his wonderful friends....

Hi,


Today I got an email from a friend of mine. I think you should read it.

It was a story from a father about his son named Shay.

The story goes like this...


One day, Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball.
Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?'
I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play.

The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning.
I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt.

I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart.
The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the

plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.
Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!
Run to first!'
Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.
By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.
Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!

Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!



It's a very interesting story, don't you think? That's why I post it without hesitation.

To me, the most outstanding point was how a group of young kids allowed Shay to play for their team, and how the other team forgetting their good chance of winning. As we know, MOST of young kids are full of ego. They hardly ever think about others. Moreover when it comes to pride, they won't dare to lose to anyone. But, those kids in the story are different. They, both sides, were letting the other team to win, simply just to make Shay happy.

The other point that I could observe is, how a simple sacrifice of one could bring overwhelming and unforgettable joy to another. Yes, they might lose at that point of time. But they would have another chance, wouldn't they? But for Shay, that was a once-in-a-lifetime experience, don't you think so?

And now the question is....What would we do if we were to be one of those young kids? Would we help the other "Shay" around us?

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Ego

Hi all...

I'd like to share my feelings..

Several days ago, I witnessed the ego of mankind...Well, it's not that I'm not an egoistic person. It's simply that at that point of time, I was not one of those egoists. So that I could see clearly how egoists irritate those who were not...Yep, I was irritated back then.

Just wondering why should mankind have this thing called "ego"... Isn't it better if there is no such thing on earth? Well, I know it's a childish thought. But my feeling right now really makes me questioning this again. Yep, I did say again. This is one of my thoughts back then though, maybe several years ago.

That's just a simple reflection from me ^^
Hope that at least I would be aware when I am being an egoist and irritating people around me...

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Introduction

Hi !

Here is my first post in my entire life...

First, I would like to let you know that it is the first time for me to write a blog. Any kind of help, suggestion or advice would be greatly appreciated! (by email is preferable)

Next...

The story of the day...


Today I witnessed how an intense hard work is being fruitful.
I have this good friend of mine who had several "quarrels" with a friend of his. It was not that they really had something to be fought over. It was merely because both of them were in hard times, so that one little piece of problem would cause a quarrel.

However, it ended up that their relationship is not going as normal, if i could say so, as before. They used to be very close to each other. Even though my friend is trying his best to act as usual as he could (I know it!)

Today is the birthday of his friend. I do not know how but he ended up going downtown to get a cake for his/her (censored, ok?) birthday with another friend.

At his friend's simple birthday celebration, I was observing the situation carefully (Yep, Kepo. You could say I am). His friend did not ask him to give a testimonial until the end of the testimonial session, not even speaking a word or two to him. When it came to the prayer session, he/she ask him to lead the prayer and mentioned his/her intentions to be prayed over. I know it is too fast to conclude, but I think one of the intentions was saying "let's forgive each other and back to our normal relationship" in a very indirectly way. People won't understand unless they know their problem =) Then, there it went the prayer session and the simple-but-beautiful birthday celebration ended

Well, even though that might not be true (any part of the story above might not be true anyway...some of them are merely my own derivation of the problem), but I'm glad it happened as it did.
Thanks be to God for that...
Peace be with them and each of us ^^